It has been 2 months le... 难得 i start to register a new entry... all thanks to Mr KM.. hee
ya, cos ganna pin point by him to do his survey mah... :P

As my nite is usually spent somewhere n by the time i reaches home, it's already 9 to 10 liao... haha... plus i'm now using ntu's 56k dial up, therefore all these added up to ==> lazy + no time to update my blog.. haha...

To cor: i'm onz to meet up next week... think we did mention abt meeting up at ur 1 month deadline... but anyway, everything has already been settled liao.. so wat's left is only the updates.. haha

Okok... back to the survey:

A. whether like girl girl or boy boy...

hmmm.... as wat gil has said, depends on whether it's toking abt kids or adults lor... but from the way it's phrase like toking abt kids lei... guess i'm ok with both gal gal n boi boi... cos after all, no matter which sexes 'pop' out, they r still ur own flesh n blood... anyway... drag too far liao... haha

B. my 8 criterias in an ideal partner...

actually on these 8 criterias, i agreed with Mr KM on most of his pts lei...
there's no such thing as perfect or ideal in this world... be it systems, pple, opinions etc.. everything has certain degree of flaws in them, so my first criteria to wat i think should be within my 'checklist' for the 'perfect' partner will be:

1. Dedication --- every r/s needs some form of maintainence, i would say to sacrifice for the other person is too strong n negative word to use.. every individual is unique in their own ways, to be able to come together as a couple is a big step taken by 2 individuals to walk out of their own world n embrace the other. i would think that to be able to dedicate to each other in most ways, for a couple, will be an ideal situation for a r/s

2. Communication --- humans are verbal animals, a r/s cannot survive w/o communication. to be able to communicate isn't just abt talking non stop.. i would think understanding is impt in communication. n also stubborness n individualism doesn't help in communication... hee.. so my take on the 2nd criteria will be constant n effective comms ba..

3. actually i'm already stuck at num 3 liao... hee... hmmm.. 3rd criteria shall be love ba.. of course most pple would want their partner to love them with all their heart as wat they would do for their partner also.

4. Tolerance --- bad habits, weakness, strength, jealousy... understanding is a better word used i guess.. to be able to understand why some things are just happening that way n accept it..

5. Oh ya, ideal partner should be able to take care of the house... haha.. of course i will definitely do my part too.. clean here clean there.. maintaining a home can help to build up r/s i think... haha.. of course cannot be too picky on the task that need to be done lah...

6. hmmm.... 6th criteria ah, an ideal partner must know how to enjoy life after work... haha... then life together wouldn't be boring everyday... must know the enjoyment of nuaing wor.. haha

7. totful?? small gestures can make someone's day... hee... dun need be so ideal till 心有灵犀 ba, just some unintentional words of encouragement or care or a simple sms or a pat on the shoulder will just do for me..

8. finally the 8th, but not the last though... that person must make me have the feeling that 'she is the one'.... n i guess the 8th criteria is being happily fulfilled for me at the moment n for the days to come... heee...

So that's all for now.. till then... =)